The most common way women unknowingly start arguments is by not being direct when they share their feelings. Instead of directly expressing her dislike or disappointment, a woman asks rhetorical questions and unknowingly (or knowingly) communicates a message she wants to give it is generally what a man will hear.
For example, when a man is late, a woman may feel “I don’t like waiting for you when you are late” or “I was worried that something had happened to you. ” When he arrives, instead of directly sharing her feelings she asks a rhetorical question like “How could you be so late? ‘ or “What am I supposed to think when you’re so late? ” or “Why didn’t you call? ”
Certainly asking someone “Why didn’t you call? ” is OK if you are sincerely looking for a valid reason. But when a woman is upset the tone of her voice often reveals that she is not looking for a valid answer but is making the point that there is no acceptance reason for being late.
Just as women need validation, men need approval. The more a man loves a woman the more he needs her approval. It is always there in the beginning of a relationship. Either she give him the message that she approves of him or he feels confident that he can win her approval. In either case the approval is present.
Even if a woman has been wounded by other men or her father she will still give approval in the beginning of the relationship. She may feel “He is a special man, not like others I have known.”
Watch out for the other chapter of this topic, till next time have a wonderful day guys.